Monday, July 26, 2021

Monday!

Dear Family,
Two days in a row. Nice! I hope you know how much I love you!
Dad

Monday, July 26, 2021
10:00 pm

Busy day. I had a couple meetings to discuss security systems for the Springville branch and also our card processing conversion. They both went well. Tomorrow I need to finish getting ready for Board meeting.

Julie made raspberry ice cream for FHE treats tonight, and it was amazing. We ate it straight from the ice cream maker as soon as FHE was done and cleaned out the entire container. That's a good thing, because if there was any left I'd go eat more even though I'm really full.

FHE tonight was fun. David and his kids joined us and are spending the night; Lisa stayed at home to enjoy a little peace and quiet.

One awesome thing today – I was scrolling through Instagram while brushing my teeth, and came across a picture that looked like one Jessie had done, but it wasn't on her account. After reading through the description, I realized that this other site with 178k followers had posted one of her paintings and tagged her as the artist. One proud dad!

Ministering: One of my colleagues at another CU sent an email today asking for advice on email providers. I responded with the name of our IT provider (Solzorro) and recommended he check it out. Thomas from Firefighters (whom I also recommended to Solzorro) agreed. It felt good to help a fellow CU and also help Solzorro get more business.

Thankful: I'm thankful for inspiration. While praying this morning I had two specific answers to questions I have been pondering on as Bishop. They weren't 100% answers, but they are steps in the right direction.

More later…


Sunday, July 25, 2021

Visiting Grover, Utah

Dear family,
This entry is long, so I'll just get right to it. Love you all!
Dad

Sunday, July 25, 2021
10:18 pm

It's been a good, busy week since I last wrote. Highlights:

Last Saturday (the 17th) Spencer had a parade in Goshen with the bagpipe band. It was my favorite parade I've ever been to. We pulled our van up at the end of the street, opened the back, and watched as they and 15 other participants walked past. They threw candy that my kids happily collected, and we drove back home. Best parade ever.

Last Sunday Julie took the kids to Cory Clay's mission homecoming. She said it was really good. It's amazing that Mark's friends are starting to return. I had a full day, including meeting with Joseph Ober about serving a mission and my monthly stewardship with Pres. Brinkerhoff.

Monday morning we left for the Aaronic Priesthood encampment. I felt like it was a great success. We had 16 young men and 7 adult leaders. We stayed at a family property that Reid Heiss has access to in Grover.

Monday we set up camp and then hiked to Hickman Bridge. It was an easy two-mile round trip hike. The bridge was a cool overhead formation. Rhett Hert got stung a couple times by some bees that weren't happy that we disturbed their nest under a rock.

Tuesday we hiked to Upper Calf Creek Falls. That was also two miles, but more strenuous as there was a very steep part as you drop down into a canyon. The falls were pretty, and most of the boys loved diving into the cold water. We spent about an hour at the water – long enough for a couple boys to get sunburned.

Wednesday was our long hike – six miles in Sulphur Creek. Everyone got wet, as there were some sections that required wading in water that was nearly chest-deep on an adult, and that some of the smaller kids had to swim. Everything came back stained a deep orange-red. I was really proud of the boys – everyone made the hike, and the ones who were nervous about some of the obstacles overcame their fear and succeeded. We stopped for ice cream on our way home. It was expensive and only mediocre, but the boys loved the treat.

Thursday we packed up in the morning and then headed to Little Wild Horse Canyon. The very first time I hiked it I was blown away by the slot canyon. It is still one of my favorite hikes. We went about 1.75 miles up before turning around. We intended to go to Goblin Valley, but there is now a $20 per car charge to go in, which would have totaled at least $60 for our group, if we consolidated cars as much as possible. Since we were already running late, we decided to make sandwiches on the tailgate of Chase's truck and head for home.

It rained on us every day of the trip, sometimes quite heavily. Fortunately the tents kept most of the water out. The kids all got along well and include each other in their activities. The horseshoe pit and cornhole games were both being used almost nonstop. We also had people playing Pit, Uno (several versions) and taught a bunch of people Cover Your Assets. Several people were hooked. Food was good too.

We started each day with a brief devotional and a question for the boys to think about during the day. In the evening we had a longer devotional focusing on a part of the Aaronic Priesthood Quorum theme. I was really happy with how that went.

One highlight of the trip was when I was hiking with a small group on Tuesday that included Braxton Johnson. As we were discussing the priesthood, he asked if he could be ordained a Deacon if he attended Church regularly. I assured him that he could, and that I would love to help him do that. I mentioned that to him mom after camp, and am eager to help make something happen.

The only downer from our trip was finding out on Friday, the day after we got home, that one of our participants tested positive for COVID that day. Praying that he did not pass it on to anyone else. As a precaution, today we asked the Elders Quorum to take care of all aspects of the sacrament, and will do so next week too. It was neat to watch these older brothers take care of the sacrament. Many of them have not done so in years; I could tell they appreciated the opportunity to do this again.

Friday I spent most of the morning getting working through a week's worth of emails. I identified a couple frustrations that I need to work on with my staff. That evening we had a cookout at dad and mom's house. Steph and McKay & family were there, along with Denise and Charles and their daughter Stephanie (not to be confused with my sister) and her husband Peter and their son Franklin.

Yesterday Spencer marched in the Fiesta Days parade in Spanish Fork, this time playing clarinet with the Springville marching band. We made it just in time to see his group march past. Then we came back home and played a game of Uno Flip that I bought for Julie for her birthday. It was a long one, but fun. In the afternoon I went back to SF with Spencer to watch Mike perform in a talent show. He did a standup comedy routine; I think he was happy with it. Then we played Settlers of Catan. Spencer won, with Isaac and Neil close behind; I got clobbered but enjoyed the process. At nighttime Julie took everyone except Nathaniel to watch the fireworks in SF. I stayed home to bathe Nathaniel and put him in bed. Then I ironed shirts for Sunday, took a shower, and got to bed before midnight. It wasn't as early as I had hoped, but was early enough that I wasn't totally exhausted today.

Today was long but good. We had Ward Youth Council today, and Bro. Heiss and I agreed that this was one of the most effective versions of this meeting we have had. Still trying to understand why that was the case. I visited with several people about serving in the temple, renewed some temple recommends, and counseled with several individuals who are struggling with a variety of challenges, some of which are acute. The gospel of Jesus Christ and His atonement have the answers to all of our problems and challenges, but sometimes learning how to apply Jesus' atonement in our lives is a challenge. The problem is ours, not His.

Ministering and Thankful: Pretty much everything above. I feel drained but happy. I am especially happy that I got to know the young men better, and they got to know me and the other members of the bishopric.

More later…

Here are some photos from our trip. Google attached them as links since there were so many/too large. @Mark Payne please let me know if you can't access them.

Friday, July 16, 2021

Game night and more

Dear family,
When Nathaniel is exhausted, he falls asleep quickly, giving me time to write in my journal! It's been a good couple of days. I hope you are doing well!
Love,
Dad

Friday, July 16, 2021
9:42 pm

I had a very interesting experience yesterday. One of the partners we work with at the credit union has been hosting leadership webinars for the past year or so. I've really enjoyed many of them. Last month's was one of the best. At the end, they previewed this month's session, and I immediately judged it to be of questionable value. The presenter ran a very successful, but also very illegal, gambling ring. I debated whether or not I should attend, but in the end decided that people can change and I didn't want to miss out on valuable leadership lessons just because I disapproved of the path they followed to learn their lessons. I only made it about a third of the way through the presentation before I decided that my first impression was correct and logged off. I can't put my finger on exactly what was wrong with it, but my guess is that this person hadn't truly changed. They had been caught in their illegal actions and changed their behavior, but their heart never really changed.

Last night I went to Dad and Mom's for game night with Jessie, Abbie, Spencer, and Steph and McKay who are still in town visiting. We played Pictionary and Balderdash, ate chips and salsa, and had a lot of fun.

Today was a busy one. Sue and Reyna were both out all day, and Stacy was out after lunch. I was kept busy covering the lending side of things while Suzanne took care of all operations. I was also trying to get ready to be gone most of next week for the priesthood encampment. There are still a couple items I didn't get done.

A piece of very good news is that the building permit from the city was officially issued today! Now we can not only move the dirt around, we can also start building walls. I have a feeling the next nine months are going to race by.

Dinner tonight was lasagna made by the young women as a service project last night. It was really tasty.

Thankful: Breakfast. Several days this week I've enjoyed raspberries in Greek yogurt with maple syrup and a piece of toast. Simple and delicious.

Ministering: I think the Holy Ghost ministered to me this week, preparing me to minister to the young men next week on our campout. I really hope I am able to connect with these young men and build a relationship of trust with them.

More later…

Future site of Freedom Credit Union.


Wednesday, July 14, 2021

Small miracles

Dear family,
Today was a good day. I hope you enjoyed it. I also hope Nathaniel and I can go to sleep soon!
Love,
Dad

Wednesday, July 14, 2021
9:37 pm

Had a good couple of days. Yesterday I had a good meeting with a vendor that provides loan protection products. Stacy joined the discussion, and I think she was sold on the ideas. I'm glad for that. Things go so much better when we are all in alignment on what needs to happen and why. In the evening I had an interview with a family with needs. It is a blessing to be able to help with some Church resources.

Today was a productive day. Before I got to work I identified two main priorities that I wanted to accomplish. I completed one and made good progress on the second. Tonight I didn't have to go anywhere, which was really nice. I helped bathe kids and have a little journal time.

I recently had an impression regarding my service to the Lord. As a Bishop, I represent the Lord in certain circumstances. I am a common judge in Israel and also have responsibility to extend callings. And yet sometimes I feel like I am just doing my best, trying not to make a mess of the Lord's work. As I was wondering how I could possibly "get it right," the thought came to me that the Lord sustains His Bishops not because we do everything exactly as He would have done them, but because we are doing our best. When a decision is critical and has one right answer, I believe He guides more clearly with the Holy Ghost. And in cases where there are several acceptable alternatives, He steps back a little more and leaves us to our own resources. He will sustain whichever good enough decision we make. I didn't put that into words very well, but it was a comforting thought.

This evening I reread some of my journal entries from last March as the world lurched into COVID lockdown. What a crazy experience. I'm grateful I wrote in my journal consistently.

One other quick experience. Sunday as I was getting ready for bed I noticed I was getting a sore throat. I have two employees out this week and really can't afford to miss work. As I offered my evening prayers, I felt impressed to pray specifically that my sore throat would be gone tomorrow. Unusual, but distinct, so that is what I prayed for. Monday when I woke up, my throat was still sore. Bummer. I wore a mask all day at work to try to avoid spreading whatever was making me feel sick. That night as I finished writing in my journal I suddenly noticed that my sore throat had "turned off." It wasn't a gradual improvement… it was sore and then 85% better in an instant. I immediately thought of my prayer the night before. The timing was different than I had assumed, but the prayer that I had been guided to offer was literally answered.

More later

Spencer's bagpipe performance and audience... (and an ugly lawn. With the drought this year, the theme is "yellow is the new green." and "survive, not thrive." Blech.)


Monday, July 12, 2021

Birthday and great food

Dear family,
It has been so nice to spend time with family this weekend. I love to be with you all!
Dad

Monday, July 12, 2021
9:08 pm

Scott and I went to lunch together on Thursday. We walked to Brick Oven and split a veggie pizza. The food was good and the company was better. It was nice to spend time as two adults with much in common.
That evening the Priest quorum met at our house for our weekly activity and made cookies. The boys polished off nearly all of them. Caleb Ober is one of my Priests and is on the autism spectrum. He is very high functioning, but definitely has some quirks. He saw Hazel and immediately was enthralled. He held her every chance he got and continues to ask about her whenever I see him. I would not have expected that from him.

Friday I went to dinner with Mike Christensen at Rumbi's.

Saturday was Julie's birthday. I made banana muffins for breakfast, then the kids helped me get several loads of laundry folded before she got up. We got the house mostly cleaned up and went to the Scottish Festival in Payson where Spencer was playing bag pipes with the Payson High School pipe band. There were several bands that performed, and they were quite good. Then we went to Bombay House with most of the rest of the extended family for dinner at Dad and Mom's treat. Steph and McKay are in town for a few weeks, so it most of the family was there. I think Mark and Jennie were the only ones missing.

Yesterday after a good day at Church, David and Lisa and their kids came over for dinner. Then everyone from Saturday's dinner, along with Addie Albertson and her kids (Trevor stayed home sick), came over for cake and ice cream to celebrate Julie's birthday again. We had a very full house. The cake was wonderful and it was fun serving lots of ice cream to everyone who was here. Spencer got his bagpipes out and put on a small (outside) concert for those who wanted to hear. Then several people including McKay, Stephanie, and Kyle all wanted to try playing the pipes. None of them got more than a pitiful squeak from the instrument, and their respect for Spencer grew.

Today I woke up with a sore throat. Not enough to keep me home from work, but enough to be annoying. Sadly, it was enough that I felt I had to cancel my temple appointment tomorrow morning. I was SO looking forward to going. I'll reschedule for the first week in August.

FHE tonight was good, and we ate yummy cookies for FHE treats.

Ministering: I hope I ministered to Julie for her birthday.

Thankful: I am thankful for bodies that heal and that are usually healthy, and for ibuprofen when needed. I'm thankful for beautiful music. I'm thankful to have been able to write in my journal tonight.

The amazing five-layer birthday cake made by Jessie.



Pizza selfie

Wednesday, July 7, 2021

Two days in a row!

Dear family,
I'm back! Here's a quick entry from tonight. Love to all!
Dad

Wednesday, July 7, 2021
9:27 pm

Hazel slept through the night last night (I think), but Nathaniel was up three times. What a silly boy. As a result, I was feeling a little groggy after lunch at work today, so I went outside for a walk, even though it was 98 degrees. The walk helped a lot.

In the afternoon we had a computer security training class. The hackers in the world are really awful. That's all I'll say.

Tonight I went to Church to do a temple recommend interview for a sister so she can resume her work in the Provo City Center Temple tomorrow morning. What a joyful thing. I also visited with a brother and extended a calling to work in Primary. He's never done that before. I think he will enjoy it and it will be a great experience for him.

Aiming for bed earlier tonight.

Thankful: I am thankful that the Holy Ghost will teach us about ourselves if we ask and are willing to listen.

Ministering: In addition to the activities at Church tonight, I ministered to a credit union member who showed up as I was walking out the door and was certain that no one could help her but me. (She was wrong, but that's beside the point.) She was sure it would only take ten minutes. She was wrong about that too.

More later…

A view of our Independence Day celebration. "Don't touch - it's hot!"


I'm back!

Tuesday, July 6, 2021
10:43 pm

How have three weeks passed since I last wrote?? Going to Missouri for the Woodward family reunion contributed, as did a change in the little kids' bedtime routine. So tonight a quick recap of the last several weeks.

Our vacation to Missouri was nice. We stayed in a nice Air B&B home and took day trips to a couple different places. The zoo was fun; we got there early-afternoon and stayed until they closed. We got there and muddled through the ticket process and got everyone in the zoo. I almost immediately did a head count and realized Camilla was missing. After four or five minutes of searching I went back outside the main gate to see if she was still out there, and there she was, talking to some zoo staff. She was so good – when she realized she was lost, she stayed in the same place and was calm. She also held tightly to someone's hand for most of the next hour. I'm really grateful everything turned out okay.

On Sunday we went to Adam-Ondi-Ahman after church and had a picnic lunch. That was my first time there in 25 years, and it was almost exactly as I remember it from last time. But I felt an unmistakable spirit there that I can't describe. It's just a special place. I'm glad I saw it again.

Another afternoon we visited the Liberty Jail.  What a terrible yet sacred place. We also visited Diana's family and had dinner while the kids played in a waterslide bounce house, jumped on the tramp, rode a zip line, and enjoyed themselves.

There was a pond on the property that we spent a little time at. Neil and Isaac especially loved going out in kayaks. They did surprisingly well. We intended to go back another day, but we had several Midwest thunderstorms that made getting on the water a bad idea. Isaac was really disappointed that we couldn't go back.

When it was time to come home, everyone had mixed emotions – looking forward to being home, but not ready to leave yet. I think that probably means we stayed just the right amount of time.

We decided trying to get two hotel rooms for our large family was a really bad idea, so we made the drive in one day both ways. We were making really good time on the drive home until I-70 was closed in western Colorado due to a mudslide that covered the freeway. Siri rerouted us to Highway 40. It really was a beautiful drive, but not one I want to make again. It added a couple hours to our drive, and we got home a little after midnight. It was a long day, but really good. The kids were great travelers.

Work is going well. I am working on several projects simultaneously. Our financial numbers continue to look very good. I've got some staffing and culture initiatives that I really need to focus on.

Church is nice. I feel good about the focus of our sacrament meetings; every meeting centers on Jesus Christ. I've had some good visits with ward members. There are so many challenges in the world faced by many good people. It's not easy to counsel members in their needs, but I feel the direction of the Holy Ghost helping me.

Last week I attended one evening of Girls' Camp. During testimony meeting I shared the thought from Alma 32 that even a desire to believe is a good start to a testimony, and we shouldn't let the fact that we don't KNOW something make us feel like we have no testimony at all. I recognize that we can know enough – Jesus Christ is the Savior, Joseph Smith was a prophet, the Book of Mormon is true, and the priesthood is on the earth today – to live faithfully, even if there are aspects of the gospel that we don't understand.

I could go on, but it's late. More later…

Just one photo tonight of yesterday's jam-making party.