Each day feels so busy, and then I write about it and remember all the things I did. This weekend was a whirlwind for sure, but a good one. I'm so grateful to be part of a family with you!
Sunday, September 20, 2020
8:55 pm
Being a dad is a full time job! Yesterday was full all day long. We started at soccer games in the morning. I played on the playground with Emma and Camilla at Isaac's game. Then we had lunch at home before diving in to baskets of laundry and a messy house. I put up four new exterior lights at the front of the house. Spencer was a great help with that. The old lights were dirty and the hardware was sun-bleached; I couldn't get them clean anymore. The new ones aren't quite as bright, but they look so much nicer. At bedtime I was really tired and ready to go to sleep, but the house was still a mess. So, I tidied up the entire main level. I was done (just) before midnight and we woke up today to a clean house. Great way to start the Sabbath.
Bonus – this weekend was homecoming at the high school. At about 10:30 pm we heard booms and went outside to our great firework-watching-deck and enjoyed a great fireworks show. Unexpected but delightful. And there were some new patterns that were really impressive.
Julie has been suffering from a sore back the last couple of days. Last night she woke me up when Nathaniel woke up around 4:00 am, asking if I could go downstairs and bring his bottle back up. "No problem," I thought. I'll even take him downstairs and feed him. I can do that! Wrong. I got the bottle all ready and sat down with Nathaniel, but he looked at me and waved off the bottle. I am clearly not the right person to feed him a bottle. I can feed him cereal, but not milk. So I took him and the bottle back to Julie, and he happily ate. Unfortunately, we had thrown off his routine, so it took longer than usual for him to go back to sleep.
After a late night and a long-ish night, I slept through the 4th Ward's Ward Council meeting this morning. I didn't miss their sacrament meeting however, and helped ordain a new Elder in their ward. Then I came home and helped a bit at home before we went to Church at 1:00 pm. Today was the first day of our "new" format. The sacrament is at the end of the meeting, allowing us to broadcast the meeting on the Church's network. In-person attendance is limited to 150 people, and the ordinance of the sacrament isn't supposed to be broadcast. The meeting is streamed online for those who cannot/should not/aren't comfortable attending in person. It was nice today. Jessie stayed home with Nathaniel who was sleeping. She said the streaming quality was pretty good, and I gave her the sacrament after I got home. It was a nice series of meetings.
Before Church I popped popcorn for the kids to snack on while we studied the scriptures together. After Church we did another activity – we cut out paper dolls in a chain so there are seven in a row. We're playing "contention hangman." Each doll represents one day of the week. Each time someone engages in contention, they will be asked to use a black crayon to color in one part of their doll for the day, similar to hangman. We hope not to hang anyone this week, but there has been an unpleasant amount of contention in our home recently. I think it was a good activity and hope it leads to a good week.
As I was finishing dinner prep, my favorite missionary companion Beau Bingham called. It was delightful to catch up briefly with him. We only talked for fifteen minutes or so. He is a counselor in their stake presidency and stays busy. I told him that we are expecting our tenth baby in March and he offered his congratulations. He still sounds like the same wonderful person I worked with twenty-five years ago in Namibia.
After dinner (magnificent, as usual!) we watched the new Book of Mormon video. This is the last one that will be released until 2022. Bummer. We enjoyed it quite a bit. Then we sang hymns. Grandpa, Grandma and Randy joined us for part of that. Grandpa and Randy helped me give Julie a blessing for her back. Now it's bedtime!
Thankful: I'm thankful for the gospel, it's ordinances, and priesthood keys. My fast today felt really good. I didn't start by eating like a pig, and I didn't "cheat" late into the evening snacking. It was an honest fast dedicated to blessings for myself and my loved ones.
Ministering: We tried to minister to a couple people this evening, but we asked them to join our hymn-along too late and they were already busy. Bro. Reid Heiss is new in our ward and is our Temple and Family History leader. I am very impressed with what he is doing and would like to get to know him better. We also invited a new young couple, the Zoebell's, but they were also busy. No giving up!
More later…
Spencer and me putting up the new lights.

Finished. I need to take a photo at twilight instead of pitch black.
