Monday, August 31, 2020

Emma made me play :)

Dear Jessie and Mark,
This is a long email as you will find.  I hope you enjoy it.  I love you both!
Love,
Dad

Monday, August 31, 2020
9:24 pm

What happened to August??  Good day today, finished what we needed to before closing the month tonight.  Looking forward to seeing how the numbers end up for the month.  It should be a good one.

I started the day with scripture study in the morning after Abbie left for seminary.  I like it when I can study in the morning; it makes the rest of the day go better.  I'm thinking about watchmen on the tower and what that means.  I realized today that the watchmen are warning us.  They don't exist to frighten off the enemy.  As we are warned, we need to heed that warning and spread that warning to our neighbors.  We are more effective when our neighbors receive that warning and we stand together shoulder to shoulder.  If I fail to warn my neighbor, I may suffer because I need his help to overcome whatever challenge is before me.  As I write that, it seems so obvious, but I think I understand it in a new way.

The weather was much cooler today than it has been.  The kids asked if we could have FHE outside, so we did.  Poor Jessie was freezing and wore a jacket with hood.  By the end, all the kids were cold so we came in for dessert and hymn history.  I was family story and found a letter Julie and I wrote exactly 22 years and one day ago.  It was written in Book of Mormon style while we lived in Phoenix and was fun to read.  I'll paste it below for memories.

After FHE we came upstairs and found eight garbage can liners lying in the hallway.  The old garbages were taken out, but the new liners had not been put in.  That was Camilla's responsibility; when I asked her about it, she indignantly informed me that she wanted to put the liners in but Emma made her play instead.

I am far too tired to stay awake any longer than necessary.

Thankful: The weather today was quite nice, and it was nice to sit outside.  I also loved my roast beef sandwich on homemade bread with crock pot carrots and fresh tomato for lunch.  Yummy!

Ministering: I'm afraid other than trying to be a good boss today I didn't do much ministering.

More later…

And now it came to pass that I awoke on this day, being the thirtieth day of the eighth month, one thousand nine hundred ninety and eight years since the coming of our Lord, and it did occur to me that this day also marks the completion of the second month of my marriage to Julie, a most fair and delightsome young woman, and my heart did feel to give thanks and praise to my God for the marvelous blessings He does bestow on His children.  And now, I also did feel to send greetings by way of an epistle to my fellow brethren and sisters.

Behold, on the day known as Wednesday the 19th, I did attend an exercise of "Team Building" with those with whom I work, and we did undertake much merriment and frivolity with the goal of becoming a stronger team in the sight of those for whom we work.  And those for whom we work did support and pay for this day of Team Building, for which we were glad.  And we did go to a place of eating and did eat, and great was our fullness upon leaving.  

And it came to pass that we did divide into three groups of eight and did wander for the space of many hours in the urban wilderness of Phoenix, observing items of curious workmanship and making engravings upon paper of Kodak that these items might be shown to others, and that we might win the prize offered to the team which did complete this task. 

And now behold, I would that ye should know that after the great wandering in the heat of the day – in which we were all sorely afflicted, but not unduly afflicted because of the many excellent rooms that had been prepared with air conditioning in the which we did rest frequently – that we did find a great and enormous house of BOB.  Now, there are those who refer to this great house by the longer name of "Bank One Ballpark", but this name is not pleasing unto me, therefore I shall refer to it as BOB from this time out.  And in this house there were many people who did gather to behold a spectacle known as baseball, between two opposing forces known as Diamondbacks and Phillies.  And the Phillies had come from afar, crossing many lands and waters and rivers and hills, yea, they did hiss forth from the ends of the earth as it were, but none were weary among them, neither were the girdles of their loins loosed; but they did come in the belly of a great fish that did roar as a lion, and their wheels were like a whirlwind.  And these visitors from afar did proceed to play in their might and did beat the Diamondbacks, in the which there was some sorrow and lamentation; but behold, this lamentation was not exceedingly great, for behold the contest was interesting to behold, and the residents of this land have grown accustomed to the defeat of the Diamondbacks; for behold, they do not wield the bat with great skill.  And it came to pass that after this contest, that many, yea most, of the people with whom I did travel did go to a place of wickedness where they did partake in strong drink and boast of their great strength, and many did continue in this activity until after the going down of the sun.  But behold, I did not partake in this activity, it being an abomination before God.

Now behold, on the morrow two humble servants of God did arrive at our home, and did request food for their support.  And having been warned beforehand by the calendar that these missionaries would be coming that day, we did have victuals prepared for them; and we did feed them porridge of carrots, potatoes and meat which we did roast in a pot; but behold, the meat was served sparingly, which thing is pleasing in the sight of God. And after they had eaten and were full, the missionaries did preach unto us the words of God; and Elder Lowe did recite unto us the words of King Benjamin which he did deliver to his people from the great tower, and Elder Lowe did exhort us to become as little children that we may one day return to the presence of God.

On Saturday we did arise from our beds early that our minds might be invigorated, and truly this was wise, for behold we had much to do.  And as I was caring for the vehicle which God has enabled us to acquire, in the which I did change the oil, behold, a member of our congregation did contact my wife in my absence, requesting our help in preparing the home of another with all manner of paint on the walls; for behold, the walls were shades of orange or pink or green, and were not pleasing to behold, for they did not please the eye nor gladden the heart.  And we did go to this house and did work diligently for many hours, spreading gallons of paint before we did go home.

And when we did return home, we did clean ourselves and dress in our fine twined linens that we might be suitably prepared to go to the House of the Lord, where we did participate in the ordinances of salvation on behalf of our forefathers.  For behold, the words of Malachi are being fulfilled, for truly the hearts of the fathers are being turned to the children, and the hearts of the children to the fathers.  And we did both seal children to fathers, and husbands to wives, and this work did bring us joy and gladness.  And it came to pass that after this period of worship in the House of the Lord, that we did meet with friends, and did go yet again to a house of eating, and verily we did eat much.  And the food was Mexican, and it was good.  And the goodness thereof was such that Julie did keep in reserve the half of her meal to take with her to work that she might partake of it there too; and also was the desire to not get sick in the house of eating great in the mind of Julie.

On the next day, we did arise early and go to a house of worship where we did partake of the sacrament, and we did remember the Lord our God, and did rejoice much in the Spirit that did abound.  And Julie did serve the children, and I did endeavor to preach the pleasing word of God. 

And it came to pass that after our meetings, we did return to our house and did prepare more food, of which we did partake with new friends we have made.  Behold, their names are Mike and Amy.  And they are young, like unto us, but behold Amy is great with child, and is due to be delivered.  And after we did eat, we did play the game of Rook; and behold, we did play in our might, in the which Julie and I did beat Mike and Amy; and behold, there was no sorrow nor lamentation, and we did agree to meet together soon, that they might try to beat us.  And now, I would that ye should know that we feel blessed and fortunate to have so many friends upon whom we may call; for verily, they are all men and women of sound understanding, and they take delight in doing that which is right, and also in enjoying righteous activities which are pleasing in the sight of God.  And also, there are three new young couples who have moved into our ward, and we shall invite them over soon for food, or for merriment, according as we shall desire.

Now behold, Julie does work each day at a place of learning known as Arizona State University; and behold, she does work at Arizona State Savings and Credit Union, which is located there.  And she does work with other women there, and they do both give and receive money; and she has spoken to those with whom she works concerning Jesus Christ and the joy that comes from following his teachings.  And they are all greatly impressed by her, and delight in working with her.  And this brings us peace and satisfaction.

And it came to pass that on Tuesday, we did journey to an Institute that we might continue to feast upon the good word of God; but behold, the class had been canceled, although we did not know why.  But we shall make the journey again this Tuesday that we might meet this teacher and learn more of the Doctrine and Covenants and grow in the spirit of God.

On Wednesday, behold we did go our separate ways, in the which the Lord did watch over us and protect us that no harm or accident might come upon us.  And Julie did go to a meeting of the Primary Presidency of which she is a part; and I did go to yet another house of eating with many from my place of work.  And behold, the place of eating was exceedingly loud, and great was the loudness of our waiter.  But behold, many did find this person funny, but this was because of the quantities of alcohol that they had consumed and did continue to consume throughout the meal.  But I and my fellow Mormons did not partake of this tradition, but we did drink lemonade and did remain sober.  And the company did pay for this meal, and verily I say unto you that the bill was great, even to exceed all other bills I have seen for a meal.  For behold, there were many people present, and the majority of those present did partake of strong drink which does cost exceedingly much.  And I was grateful that the Lord has counseled us not to partake of such, for the consequences are not pleasing unto me.

On Friday, we did go to out and did behold in a house of entertainment a movie, in the which a man named Truman did live out his life.  And we did comment among ourselves that the movie was entertaining; and we were grateful that wickedness was not portrayed as happiness, nor were great sins enacted before our eyes.  And truly, this is a marvel to behold; for it was astonishing unto us that the previews for other movies were most abominable, and one dares not imagine the actual movie, for the preview is most shameful.  And we will content ourselves in the watching of movies that are pure and wholesome, most of which were made before we were born.

And now, I would speak unto you concerning the labor that I do.  For behold, there is much to do, and the time which I have to engage in this labor is not sufficient that I might accomplish all that they would have me accomplish.  And also, there is much that I yet do not know, and behold, I did make an exceedingly great mistake with one account, which did require two days to undo.  Now behold, I was frustrated to a great degree by this mistake, but those with whom I work did exercise great patience with me and did show me the error of my ways, in the which I learned much.  And it is astonishing to behold that I have worked for nearly four months at this job, and time doth pass exceedingly fast.

And now, I behold that I am out of room on this page.  And verily, I know not what more to say than I have already said.  And so I give this page to my wife, that she may write the things which are pleasing to her soul.  And I make and end.

Hi everyone.  Hope you were able to get through that.  We had lots of fun writing it.  Life here is WONDERFUL!  I started work one the 19th.  It's lots of fun. I'm meeting so many neat people and I am able to work on my Independent Study classes from the Y during my lunch break.   Today in primary we had lots of fun with all the children together so we could let the teachers go to Relief Society and Priesthood.  So after singing time we did some finger painting.  It was interesting.  Tonight we were able to go to a New Comers Fireside at the ward building.  It was great fun.  We met quite a few new couples and had fun visiting with them.  We are getting ready to leave to go play games at some friends of ours so We'll say so long.  We wish we all the best and want you to know we are thinking of you.

It can be cold at the end of August!



Samuel the Lamanite was protected from our attacks (wadded paper)

Sunday, August 30, 2020

I took a nap

Dear Jessie and Mark,
I appreciate that the Sabbath is a day of rest, and I appreciate getting to take a nap.  But I always feel a little guilty when that nap takes more than 90 minutes.  But maybe I really need it.  Hmm.
Anyway, here is tonight's journal. I love you all and hope you have a great week!
Love,
Dad

Sunday, August 30, 2020
9:39 pm

It was a nice Sunday.  I woke up early, but so did Nathaniel.  The nice thing about online meetings is that I could feed Nathaniel breakfast while participating in Ward Council with the 4th Ward.  They have good people who are trying to be like Jesus.  I love working with them.  After their meeting I put the roast in the Crock Pot and then attended their 9 am Sacrament meeting.

Our Self-Reliance meeting is coming up in just under 2 weeks, and it feels like things are starting to come together for that.  I am hopeful this will go well and make a difference for people.

Pres. Tangren's family is quarantining because two members of the family have tested positive for COVID.  We decorated a "Get Well Soon" banner and took it to them with a loaf of fresh bread and tomatoes from the garden.  I just left it on the porch, rang the bell, and left.  Bummer.

After the sacrament at home this afternoon I fell asleep sitting up on the couch.  I took Nathaniel upstairs to be his nap buddy, but only one of us fell asleep.  I slept a little over two hours.  I dislike sleeping that long on a Sunday, but I was so exhausted.

Tonight we went to dad and mom's for a Grandpa Fry memory evening.  He passed away one year ago tomorrow.  I am glad we made so many trips to Bremerton to visit him and that we made so many good memories.  I also can't believe it's been a year since we went for his funeral.  We enjoyed pie and ice cream and sitting in the back yard to visit.  The temps tonight were delightful.

Thankful: I'm grateful for naps and the enjoyable time we had in the back yard at dad and mom's.

Ministering: It was nice to take something to the Tangren's today.

More later…
 
The view of our tomato field... 

Saturday, August 29, 2020

Saturday's are great

Saturday, August 29, 2020
10:23 pm

Busy, good Saturday.  Started at Neil's soccer game while Spencer went to Isaac's game with G&G.  Sadly, Julie and the little girls never made it.  When I got home Emma was in her bed in trouble.  She had been there for two hours and had to stay there until lunch.  She mentioned a couple times that she doesn't want to do this again.  I hope she learned her lesson.  Neil lost his game 1-2 but he played well.  Isaac's team clobbered their opponent.

We folded a LOT of laundry today, finished installing the ramp to the nesting box in the chicken coop, and washed the van in the evening.  I hoped to make salsa with tomatoes from our garden, but never made it to that today.

Thankful: I'm thankful that I can buy groceries when I need to.  Tonight Spencer and I went to Ream's.  Meat was on sale, so we got four beef roasts and two pork roasts.  I love that I can do that.

Ministering: I texted Evan to let him know that we have some Scout uniforms that we can donate to his uniform bank.

More later…



Friday, August 28, 2020

Tofu for lunch

Dear Jessie and Mark,
We brought lunch in for my staff today because tomorrow is Stacy's birthday.  I decided I'm not a huge fan of udon noodles with tofu.  I think next time I'll try pad thai.
I love you both and hope you have a great day!
Love,
Dad

Friday, August 28, 2020
9:08 pm

I didn't fall asleep while reading scriptures to the kids.  That was an accomplishment.  Tomorrow is Stacy's birthday so I made banana muffins today to take to work to celebrate.  They were amazingly good.  I love sharing good food.  I spent about a half hour this morning working with someone from another credit union teaching her how we use an Excel workbook to comply with Utah's abandoned property laws.  It's quite a process we've built, and she was impressed.  I shared with her all the resources we created and hope it is helpful.

I also reviewed some furniture options for our new branch with someone from a company that does office furniture.  The architect has great taste in design, but he likes expensive stuff.  I had to scale back the budget for our furniture, explaining that I am not spending my own money from a company I own.  The money I'm spending belongs to my members; I am just a steward.  I think she understood that and can help get us furniture that is more appropriate to our needs.

Tonight I fed Nathaniel cereal and helped Abbie with some physics homework.  I haven't done physics since I was a Junior in high school.  We're having to learn it together.  Read scriptures and Wild Robot Escapes to the kids.  Now I'm going to put PJ's on and go to sleep.  I'm exhausted.

Thankful: I'm thankful that yesterday's blood drive was successful.  We got 42 units of blood, one short of the goal to collect 43.  That's eight more than we got last time.  I feel good about that.

Ministering: I ministered today to my credit union colleague.

More later…

Lunch


Monday, August 24, 2020

Just some photos

Dear Mark, thanks for the email today. We pray for you.
Board meeting was today and it was good. Ran Spencer and Neil to soccer practice. Had FHE. Sorry we couldn't connect for a chat. Read scriptures, now off to sleep. No photos today, but here are a couple from the weekend. Love you!
Dad

Sunday, August 23, 2020

The day I wore mismatched socks

Dear Mark,
Today was full.  I started in High Council meeting this morning, then joined the EQ presidency in the 4th ward for their meeting.  They are good men who are doing good work in their ward.  I felt good about being there because I offered a suggestion related to how they would conduct their ministering interviews.  My thought led to an idea that will help them in their interviews.  That was gratifying.
I came home and got our pork roast in the crock pot.  Today's dinner had a secret ingredient - pineapple juice in place of apple juice.  It was very tasty.  I also made roasted veggies so Jessie could have something in place of mashed potatoes.  I forget how much I love those roasted vegetables.  They are amazing.
During dinner tonight we watched the Come and See event from Jessie's mission.  I am always impressed by the quality of their events.  After the fireside they ran some "commercials" the missionaries did.  There is an amazing amount of talent..  The kids watched their favorite commercial a couple extra times.
This afternoon Spencer and I made a ministering visit to Erik Watkins.  It was a good visit.  He is getting ready to start at BYU in the fall, about the same time I will be working on the Self-Reliance program.  We agreed to be "accountability partners" for each other.  I'll follow up on his schooling, he'll check with me on my progress in the "Building your business" session.  I hope it will help us both.
I worked on the stake financial audit this afternoon.  The Church has started implementing all the technology changes I wished for when I was in the Bishopric - scanning receipts, paying reimbursements via direct deposit, logging authorizations electronically.  Maybe some day I'll be called as a financial clerk. ðŸ˜‡
Tonight I gave Neil and Camilla the last of the father's blessings at the start of the school year.  Sadly, Emma doesn't want one again.  I think she is embarrassed by them.  So I pray for her, but I hope to help her become more comfortable asking for and receiving these blessings.
I can't believe we get to talk to you again tomorrow.  Time goes fast, and these new mission rules make the weeks seem to go even faster.  The kids prayed for your friend who agreed to come to church with you, and we all thanked God for your kind neighbor.
Thankful: Tonight I'm thankful for flourless peanut butter chocolate cookies.  Jessie made them for us, and they gave me hope for all the people in the world who can't eat gluten.  Those cookies are a golden delicacy of hope to anyone in need of a pick-me-up, regardless of your gluten profile.
Ministering: It felt good to minister to Erik today.  We all have challenges.  Some are "not fair."  I can be empathetic, non-judgmental, and loving, regardless of what others face.
More later...

PS - While getting dressed this morning I discovered that my black socks were mismatched, but that fact was impossible to discover unless you were the one wearing them.  So, I cheerfully wore my mismatched socks and had a successful day.  That's about as rebellious as I get! ðŸ˜Ž

The neighborhood honeybees really like our sunflowers!

We had several musical numbers today.  Not this photo, but earlier Jessie was playing the musical number she played last month for her mission fireside, with Abbie playing one part on her violin and Spencer playing another on his clarinet.  It was delightful.

Saturday, August 22, 2020

Mostly photos

Hello Mark, it's too late to write in my journal in my laptop battery is nearly dead. Here are some photos of today with a better letter coming soon.

First soccer game of the season