Thursday, August 26, 2021

Parable of the laborers

Dear family,
Wrapping up lunch, I took time to write a quick journal entry. I love you all!
Dad

Thursday, August 26, 2021
11:52 am

Quick journal entry at the end of lunch. Much has happened.

Work has been really busy but feels very productive. Had "vision huddles" with each member of my staff in the past week. Introduced a "BHAG" (Big, Hairy, Audacious Goal) to grow to $100 million in four years. That is audacious, but I think we can do it. Meetings went well, and I think we are in good position to become better. Making progress on several of the initiatives I am working on.

Saturday spent most of the morning running between various soccer games or practices and playing on the playground with Nathaniel. Did a lot of cleaning at home, wish there would have been time to play a few games, but the home was clean.

Sunday was busy. Had interviews with lots of our youth; we are working on visiting with each of them in a mid-year interview. They are generally doing well. Trying to help them discover that they can have their own personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Spending time in the scriptures helps with that. Ward Youth Council meeting went really well. The kids were engaged, laughing (appropriately) and interacting with each other. Hasn't always been that way.

Camilla started kindergarten yesterday. She was so excited to go that I barely got her to stay with me for a photo. I hope she has a great experience.

Bro. Heiss shared a great thought related to Jesus' parable of the laborers in the vineyard. The message of this parable should NOT be that we can have the same "reward" even if we slack off for the first eleven hours and just sneak into the field as a laborer at the end of the day. Instead, he focused on how the potential laborers felt during the day. In Jesus' day, if you didn't work, you didn't eat. The people hired first thing in the morning were fortunate; they knew all day that they would be able to feed their children that night. Although the work was hard, they willingly labored, knowing that they could provide for their loved ones. The longer the day went, the more desperate the remaining unemployed workers must have felt. Rather than focusing on the "outcome," consider the desires of the workers. They WANTED to work all day and were probably near desperate at the end of the day, willing to do whatever they could for whatever they could get. The most fortunate people of the day were those who didn't have to wonder if their day would be wasted. We, as members of Christ's true Church, are the fortunate ones who have the truth to guide us all the time. Sure, there is work involved, but it's well worth it.

More later…

First day of kindergarten!


Masked or not, I love being in the temple.


Wednesday, August 18, 2021

Lightning!

Dear family,
It's bedtime. I love you all!
Dad

Wednesday, August 18, 2021
9:42 pm

Mid-week journal entry! Monday we had a really nice FHE with Dad, Mom and Randy. We played a version of the throwing-a-thimble-full-of-water-on-someone game, but I changed it to give a piece of candy instead. I though that would be an improvement until I tried to end the game. Everyone still wanted more candy; people aren't so excited to get water thrown on them. Dad shared his experience blessing his father before he passed away. It was a tender experience. The lesson was good and Spencer served us all ice cream for dessert.

Yesterday I had lunch with the CEO's of Alpine, Nebo and Pacific Horizon CU's. We get together once a month for lunch. It's interesting – Paul (Alpine) is currently serving as Bishop of his ward and Dale (Nebo) was Bishop of his ward until recently. We always end up talking about Church stuff for a while. The First Presidency last week sent a letter to all Church members encouraging us all to receive the COVID vaccine. It has been surprising and disheartening to hear of many Church members who are struggling with this counsel.

Reid and I visited the Van Horn's and Simons last night, and also chatted with Rio Davis for a bit. All the visits were really nice.

Last night there was a huge thunderstorm. Somewhere in the middle of the night there was a tremendous boom as lightning struck somewhere very close. This morning when I got in my car, every warning light on the dashboard was on and the computer display cycled through warnings for every system notifying me that there was a problem with everything. The lightning was so close it scrambled the car's computer. Fortunately it was fine after the techs reset it.

Today was the first day of school. I'm really happy that the kids all seemed to have a good day. I was especially happy that someone Isaac met today invited him to play soccer at recess. The kids were all a little apprehensive about starting school since everyone except Abbie moved to a new school. Tender mercy.

I had lunch with Taylor Nadauld, a professor from BYU, and three of his colleagues. They are interested in several consumer-finance questions, and they picked my brain for 90 minutes on a variety of subjects. I enjoyed it quite a bit.

Temple first thing tomorrow. More later…


Sunday, August 15, 2021

As busy as I've ever been

Dear family,
The past week has raced past as fast as any seven day period I can remember. Between family, work, and Church, I am as busy as I have ever been. Unlike when I was in college, it is now spread across more classes of responsibility. I'm grateful for the sustaining hand of God to make it possible. Here's an abbreviated recap of the week.
Much love to all!
Dad

Sunday, August 15, 2021
10:01 pm

Writing every night was a nice tradition while it lasted. Now I'm grateful to write weekly. Sometimes even in complete sentences. Not tonight. Recap:

Monday: Worked on the implementation of our new checking account product. We're still a few months away from launch. There's lots to do. The company we're working with has a process that is organized and comprehensive. I wish more of the companies we work with had a similar process. Evening had FHE and it was nice. I did the lesson uncovering a picture of the temple that had pieces of paper with principles related to a "house of godliness." Then we used those same shapes to build a home. The kids were impressed. Score one for the dad, no Pintrest needed! 😊

Tuesday: Meetings at work, trying to lay the groundwork for more changes that are coming. I realized this week at work that I am changing nearly everything. Switching vendors to save cost, improve products, and get better support. We're spending a significant amount of money on Springville; we can't open there and do what we've been doing the way we've been doing it and expect to succeed. Won't happen. Starting NOW to become what we need to be. Had a couple good Bishop visits in the evening with people who have good goals to change and grow. That's encouraging, but it is difficult to see the struggles that some people deal with.

Wednesday: Spencer's last day of early morning driver's ed. More meetings at work. No meetings after work which was a nice change.

Thursday: Temple day! It was so nice to go to the temple again! I can only sign up for one endowment session at a time, and by the time I finish one, it takes a while before I can schedule the next one. But I can also schedule one initiatory session and one sealing session. Thursday is my favorite day to go – I see Bro. Crandall, Bro. Kent, and Bro. Paulsen there. I'm scheduled for the next three Thursdays. Hooray!

Thursday at work was a really productive day. Spent most of it preparing to discuss with employees the new my vision. Scheduled individual meetings for the week of the 23rd so I have time to finish preparing a general introduction plus personalized messages for each employee.

Thursday evening was water kickball for combined YM/YW. Went very well. Seth Puckett came and had a good time. That's the first time he's been to a youth activity in years. Finished with root beer floats.

Friday: Busy morning at work. Met Scott Dunn at Brick Oven for lunch to celebrate his birthday last week. Nice visit with him. Took the afternoon of to go swimming with the kids in Spanish Fork. Temperature was mid 90's – just the way I like it if I'm going to be swimming. Julie stayed home with Nathaniel and Hazel. Too bad she couldn't come but it was so much easier to swim with bigger kids. We went down the slide as much as people wanted. Lines weren't long and it wasn't too crowded. Three hours went by surprisingly fast. Bonus: no sunburns!

Saturday: Chores. Wish those didn't take so long, but they do. Mike Christensen sang in the Salem Days talent show. I went to help video the performance and support him. I was impressed by his dedication. His hands were shaking as he held the mic, but he put everything he had into it. I was apprehensive for him before it began, but it turned out to be a pretty good experience. I enjoyed his cover of Magic by Coldplay more than some of the original songs by other bands that performed!

Cleaned the kitchen and prepped agendas etc. for today's meetings until almost midnight, then finally got to sleep.

Today: Church was good. Technical difficulties getting the Zoom meeting launched. YW sang a number and it was really nice. Emma gave a talk in Primary. We didn't take time to help her prepare well, so I ended up writing her talkf or her. It wasn't an optimal outcome. Need to do better next time. Had a bunch of interviews, including an impromptu one to strengthen a brother who longs to be healed from past abuse. I feel God's love for His children, regardless of their circumstances. The gospel of Jesus Christ truly is a hospital for the weak, sick, and broken. He accepts us as we are, then changes us for the better. There's no such thing as "too broken" to come to Jesus. The only thing I can think of that really keeps us away is "too stubborn." Also had a great visit with Pres. Brinkerhoff. I always love visiting with him.

Tonight enjoyed a wonderful dinner (got the green beans perfect this week after messing them up a few times in a row.) Did a nice activity from Come, Follow Me learning about D&C 88:119-126 in the afternoon. Didn't fall asleep on the couch, although it was close! Read about a Christian organization to which we donate that is working to alleviate suffering. Was sobering the challenges they are working to address. Led to some tears from several people, including Emma worried about bad guys near our home. Tried to reassure her. Then discussing drugs while learning about the Word of Wisdom didn't help. She's sleeping in our bed now. That's something I need to do pronto.

More later…


Sunday, August 8, 2021

A long message

Dear family,
This is a long-ish one. So without further ado, press on.
Love to all,
Dad

Sunday, August 8, 2021
9:25 pm

Thursday Abbie came with me to attend wedding receptions for both Megan McConnell and Selendra Lewis. I can't believe I am now at the point that I'm attending wedding receptions for my children's friends. Both receptions were really nice. Abbie came with me because Hazel wasn't happy after getting her immunizations earlier that day. Fortunately, it only took a day for her to feel better.

Friday I went to SLC for the first time in a long time for a work-related meeting. It wasn't really a meeting – it was an open house to celebrate Marilyn Pearson's reception since we couldn't do one during the height of the COVID pandemic. The World's Greatest Corndogs food truck was there. It was a tasty meal, but next time I think I'll just get the half-sized corndog. Marilyn is doing well and is now serving in a significant leadership role at a girl's camp in the Salt Lake Valley. I bet she's doing a great job.

That evening we had a ward potluck dinner at Jolley's Ranch up the canyon. It was well attended, and I'm grateful for that. There was a lot of smoke in the air. A low-pressure system has moved into the area and drawn in smoke from wildfires in Oregon and California. It's amazing the devastation and effects we are experiencing.

Saturday morning I worked. Most of the day was slow, and that was great. I was able to watch a bunch of training videos for a new service we are preparing to launch in October. The last 15 minutes got very busy; I did more transactions in that last quarter hour than I did the rest of the morning. In the afternoon we focused lots on cleaning. Isaac was convinced he couldn't do anything, then after a little pep talk, some chastisement, and a little aggravation from the parents, he did a great job cleaning the dishwasher doors.

I hoped to take Julie out for a date in the evening, but it didn't happen. Instead we watched the 4x400 men's and women's relays on the Olympics during dinner. It was incredible to see what the human body can do with dedication, focus, and talent. It was nearly a spiritual experience.

Church today was nice. We had several young men speak about their experience at Aaronic Priesthood encampment. Chase Crandall spoke, and I was the concluding speaker. I didn't write a talk, but made notes of several points I wanted to cover. I was pleased with how it went, and several ward members commented favorably about it. My objective was to testify of Jesus Christ in a way that would reach people, no matter their current level of faith or conviction. I am coming to realize how much we all need Jesus, no matter how strong or faithful we have been in the past. And I'm afraid that some people feel that Jesus can't or won't help them because they are too messed up, too broken, too rebellious, or too far past feeling. None of those are true. I tried to share a message of hope in Jesus that will apply broadly.

After Church I had several good meetings with ward members in various stages of activity and with different needs. Gratefully, everyone I met with today recognizes that the Savior can and will help them. I look forward to continuing to work with them. I was also really pleased to see all of the Puckett family come to sacrament meeting today. I hope we can strengthen them in their commitment to make this a new habit, not just a one-off event. New habits can be hard to make, especially when old habits are deeply ingrained. But the truths  in the last paragraph are real and apply to all of us.

When I got home I joined the family in the living room where Julie was leading an activity. I lasted about ten minutes before I was asleep in my suitcoat and glasses. After (or in between sections) of my nap I talked with Emma and Camilla about what they discussed today in Primary. One of the points of their lesson was that holy places include temples and our homes. I shared my opinion that the reason these places are holy is because these are places families are formed.

Tonight, Dad, Mom and Randy came over for dinner. Julie made spaghetti and it was really good. Then we studied from Come, Follow Me and sang hymns together before enjoying ice cream and chocolate chip cookies that Neil made.

I have to acknowledge a great development in our family – Nathaniel has started going to sleep without protest! I feed him a bottle, rock him for a couple minutes, and then tell him I'm going to put him in bed while I finish getting ready for bed. He snuggles down on his pillow and goes to sleep. Hallelujah!

Ministering: Today I felt like I had two significant ministering events. One was delivering my talk in sacrament meeting. I felt guided in the points I made and how I illustrated them. I tried to testify of Jesus Christ and share experiences that would carry that point home without distracting from the point of the message. The second was visiting with a ward member who is really trying to come back to the Savior. Serving as a Bishop is an amazing experience. Ideas, promptings, and guidance come, and I am more confident in saying things that I might have shied away from in other settings. I am grateful that the Lord inspires His bishops.

Thankful: So much.

A lovely bee found our flower bed.

Spencer's marching band performed in the gym because the outside was so smokey.


Monday, July 26, 2021

Monday!

Dear Family,
Two days in a row. Nice! I hope you know how much I love you!
Dad

Monday, July 26, 2021
10:00 pm

Busy day. I had a couple meetings to discuss security systems for the Springville branch and also our card processing conversion. They both went well. Tomorrow I need to finish getting ready for Board meeting.

Julie made raspberry ice cream for FHE treats tonight, and it was amazing. We ate it straight from the ice cream maker as soon as FHE was done and cleaned out the entire container. That's a good thing, because if there was any left I'd go eat more even though I'm really full.

FHE tonight was fun. David and his kids joined us and are spending the night; Lisa stayed at home to enjoy a little peace and quiet.

One awesome thing today – I was scrolling through Instagram while brushing my teeth, and came across a picture that looked like one Jessie had done, but it wasn't on her account. After reading through the description, I realized that this other site with 178k followers had posted one of her paintings and tagged her as the artist. One proud dad!

Ministering: One of my colleagues at another CU sent an email today asking for advice on email providers. I responded with the name of our IT provider (Solzorro) and recommended he check it out. Thomas from Firefighters (whom I also recommended to Solzorro) agreed. It felt good to help a fellow CU and also help Solzorro get more business.

Thankful: I'm thankful for inspiration. While praying this morning I had two specific answers to questions I have been pondering on as Bishop. They weren't 100% answers, but they are steps in the right direction.

More later…


Sunday, July 25, 2021

Visiting Grover, Utah

Dear family,
This entry is long, so I'll just get right to it. Love you all!
Dad

Sunday, July 25, 2021
10:18 pm

It's been a good, busy week since I last wrote. Highlights:

Last Saturday (the 17th) Spencer had a parade in Goshen with the bagpipe band. It was my favorite parade I've ever been to. We pulled our van up at the end of the street, opened the back, and watched as they and 15 other participants walked past. They threw candy that my kids happily collected, and we drove back home. Best parade ever.

Last Sunday Julie took the kids to Cory Clay's mission homecoming. She said it was really good. It's amazing that Mark's friends are starting to return. I had a full day, including meeting with Joseph Ober about serving a mission and my monthly stewardship with Pres. Brinkerhoff.

Monday morning we left for the Aaronic Priesthood encampment. I felt like it was a great success. We had 16 young men and 7 adult leaders. We stayed at a family property that Reid Heiss has access to in Grover.

Monday we set up camp and then hiked to Hickman Bridge. It was an easy two-mile round trip hike. The bridge was a cool overhead formation. Rhett Hert got stung a couple times by some bees that weren't happy that we disturbed their nest under a rock.

Tuesday we hiked to Upper Calf Creek Falls. That was also two miles, but more strenuous as there was a very steep part as you drop down into a canyon. The falls were pretty, and most of the boys loved diving into the cold water. We spent about an hour at the water – long enough for a couple boys to get sunburned.

Wednesday was our long hike – six miles in Sulphur Creek. Everyone got wet, as there were some sections that required wading in water that was nearly chest-deep on an adult, and that some of the smaller kids had to swim. Everything came back stained a deep orange-red. I was really proud of the boys – everyone made the hike, and the ones who were nervous about some of the obstacles overcame their fear and succeeded. We stopped for ice cream on our way home. It was expensive and only mediocre, but the boys loved the treat.

Thursday we packed up in the morning and then headed to Little Wild Horse Canyon. The very first time I hiked it I was blown away by the slot canyon. It is still one of my favorite hikes. We went about 1.75 miles up before turning around. We intended to go to Goblin Valley, but there is now a $20 per car charge to go in, which would have totaled at least $60 for our group, if we consolidated cars as much as possible. Since we were already running late, we decided to make sandwiches on the tailgate of Chase's truck and head for home.

It rained on us every day of the trip, sometimes quite heavily. Fortunately the tents kept most of the water out. The kids all got along well and include each other in their activities. The horseshoe pit and cornhole games were both being used almost nonstop. We also had people playing Pit, Uno (several versions) and taught a bunch of people Cover Your Assets. Several people were hooked. Food was good too.

We started each day with a brief devotional and a question for the boys to think about during the day. In the evening we had a longer devotional focusing on a part of the Aaronic Priesthood Quorum theme. I was really happy with how that went.

One highlight of the trip was when I was hiking with a small group on Tuesday that included Braxton Johnson. As we were discussing the priesthood, he asked if he could be ordained a Deacon if he attended Church regularly. I assured him that he could, and that I would love to help him do that. I mentioned that to him mom after camp, and am eager to help make something happen.

The only downer from our trip was finding out on Friday, the day after we got home, that one of our participants tested positive for COVID that day. Praying that he did not pass it on to anyone else. As a precaution, today we asked the Elders Quorum to take care of all aspects of the sacrament, and will do so next week too. It was neat to watch these older brothers take care of the sacrament. Many of them have not done so in years; I could tell they appreciated the opportunity to do this again.

Friday I spent most of the morning getting working through a week's worth of emails. I identified a couple frustrations that I need to work on with my staff. That evening we had a cookout at dad and mom's house. Steph and McKay & family were there, along with Denise and Charles and their daughter Stephanie (not to be confused with my sister) and her husband Peter and their son Franklin.

Yesterday Spencer marched in the Fiesta Days parade in Spanish Fork, this time playing clarinet with the Springville marching band. We made it just in time to see his group march past. Then we came back home and played a game of Uno Flip that I bought for Julie for her birthday. It was a long one, but fun. In the afternoon I went back to SF with Spencer to watch Mike perform in a talent show. He did a standup comedy routine; I think he was happy with it. Then we played Settlers of Catan. Spencer won, with Isaac and Neil close behind; I got clobbered but enjoyed the process. At nighttime Julie took everyone except Nathaniel to watch the fireworks in SF. I stayed home to bathe Nathaniel and put him in bed. Then I ironed shirts for Sunday, took a shower, and got to bed before midnight. It wasn't as early as I had hoped, but was early enough that I wasn't totally exhausted today.

Today was long but good. We had Ward Youth Council today, and Bro. Heiss and I agreed that this was one of the most effective versions of this meeting we have had. Still trying to understand why that was the case. I visited with several people about serving in the temple, renewed some temple recommends, and counseled with several individuals who are struggling with a variety of challenges, some of which are acute. The gospel of Jesus Christ and His atonement have the answers to all of our problems and challenges, but sometimes learning how to apply Jesus' atonement in our lives is a challenge. The problem is ours, not His.

Ministering and Thankful: Pretty much everything above. I feel drained but happy. I am especially happy that I got to know the young men better, and they got to know me and the other members of the bishopric.

More later…

Here are some photos from our trip. Google attached them as links since there were so many/too large. @Mark Payne please let me know if you can't access them.

Friday, July 16, 2021

Game night and more

Dear family,
When Nathaniel is exhausted, he falls asleep quickly, giving me time to write in my journal! It's been a good couple of days. I hope you are doing well!
Love,
Dad

Friday, July 16, 2021
9:42 pm

I had a very interesting experience yesterday. One of the partners we work with at the credit union has been hosting leadership webinars for the past year or so. I've really enjoyed many of them. Last month's was one of the best. At the end, they previewed this month's session, and I immediately judged it to be of questionable value. The presenter ran a very successful, but also very illegal, gambling ring. I debated whether or not I should attend, but in the end decided that people can change and I didn't want to miss out on valuable leadership lessons just because I disapproved of the path they followed to learn their lessons. I only made it about a third of the way through the presentation before I decided that my first impression was correct and logged off. I can't put my finger on exactly what was wrong with it, but my guess is that this person hadn't truly changed. They had been caught in their illegal actions and changed their behavior, but their heart never really changed.

Last night I went to Dad and Mom's for game night with Jessie, Abbie, Spencer, and Steph and McKay who are still in town visiting. We played Pictionary and Balderdash, ate chips and salsa, and had a lot of fun.

Today was a busy one. Sue and Reyna were both out all day, and Stacy was out after lunch. I was kept busy covering the lending side of things while Suzanne took care of all operations. I was also trying to get ready to be gone most of next week for the priesthood encampment. There are still a couple items I didn't get done.

A piece of very good news is that the building permit from the city was officially issued today! Now we can not only move the dirt around, we can also start building walls. I have a feeling the next nine months are going to race by.

Dinner tonight was lasagna made by the young women as a service project last night. It was really tasty.

Thankful: Breakfast. Several days this week I've enjoyed raspberries in Greek yogurt with maple syrup and a piece of toast. Simple and delicious.

Ministering: I think the Holy Ghost ministered to me this week, preparing me to minister to the young men next week on our campout. I really hope I am able to connect with these young men and build a relationship of trust with them.

More later…

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